HOW DO YOU KNOW WHAT TO SAY? When you witness or do sidewalk counseling at an abortion facility or Planned Parenthood, it’s not always enough to rely on your faith that what you are saying and doing is the best answer to saving lives.   The best ways to approach abortion-minded women are not always the ones that seem most obvious to us. This can be a last attempt to turn hearts away from abortion and to offer real help, or to be an outward sign to the community that you stand for life.